Your value does not decrease based on someone viewing you in a certain way. If they are not able to see your worth, that does not reduce your cost. There are so many inspirational movies, awareness notes, and quotes that help one to realize his or her self-worth. Despite these quotes and films, most of us have a mistake of failing to define our own self-worth. Do you know your worth?
Self-worth is the way you see and give worth to yourself. It is based on the perspective you have about yourself. It does not depend on what others think or say about you. But it is not always easy to not worth ourselves based on outside forces. There is no yardstick to measure self-worth, except your perspective towards yourself.
We often measure our worth based on outside control that exists or influences us. Our social media, the number of likes we get, the comments from people around us. All of these factors somehow play an essential role in our lives. These intend us to think that these people have the responsibility to value us. Often we do not spend much time with ourselves and devalue us without looking at the positives. These calculations and strategies are essential to increase our self-worth as we are the ones who will value us and determine our worth.
Some Things Don’t Determine Our Self-Worth
Your To-Do List
It is always fun to achieve everything on your to-do list. We feel so much satisfied by crossing off our list with the activities done already. Sometimes even mark some things at the side that are yet to be achieved. Hence, on this basis of a mere list, we value our self-worth. However, you will never experience success regularly in your life. Failures will be a part of it also. Hence, this should not be the parameter to value your self-worth.
No matter whatever type of job you may have. Whether you love it or hate it, your post does not define who you are. As a person, you cannot limit yourself based on the job you need.
Your Social Media Following
In a digital era, where people are valuing themselves with the number of followers and likes. This factor cannot ever determine your worth. You are so much more to yourself than just a mere post on social media.
Your age is just a number; some people may say that you are too young or too old. But it is not who you are at that particular person. So the comments of others should not undermine you or your worth at any cost.
Appearance Change the way you look only because you want it to change. Do it for yourself and not because of others. Your beauty, appearance, and personality depend on you. It is what makes you and defines you. Hence, you should under no circumstance(s) change yourself for anyone but you.